February Newsletter
Welcome to our monthly letter from Project SAGE - a space where we share how we support those impacted by domestic violence, the role education plays in prevention, and the partners and moments that shape our work.
Today, domestic violence includes more than physical harm. It can also involve patterns of coercive control – such as emotional manipulation, financial control, digital monitoring – often without visible signs and across all ages, backgrounds and genders.
New Year’s are often a time when questions come into focus — about what feels right, what’s shifted, and where more clarity might help. At Project SAGE, conversations often begin in the same place: with questions rather than answers. One question we hear often is: “Do I have to be in crisis to reach out?”
The short answer is no.
At Project SAGE, we’re here to listen and support people through moments ranging from urgent to uncertainty. Support at Project SAGE isn’t one-size-fits-all. Many people contact us simply to talk things through — to ask questions, sort out concerns, or getting guidance about a situation that doesn’t feel quite right. Some reach out for themselves; others are looking for ways to support a child, a friend, or a family member. There’s no expectation to take action, make decisions, or label what’s happening — unless and until someone is ready. Often, the first step is just a conversation.
What matters most is that support adapts to each person’s situation — and moves at a pace that feels right for them.
So, if questions come up — for you or for someone you care about — just know Project SAGE is here.
SAGE Around Town
You’ll see Project SAGE around town this February with a small table at NBT Bank (5 Bissell Street, Lakeville). Stop by to find information about our work, a few rotating swag items, and a stack of books you’re welcome to take home — no checkout, no returns, just like a little free library.
We’ll also be out and about at the Kent Chocolate Fest — a favorite local event supporting the Kent Center School Scholarship Fund. If you’re going, we hope you’ll grab a treat and enjoy the festivities: Kent Center School, February 11, 3:30–5:00 pm. (Snow date: February 12)
Become a Trade Secrets Underwriter!
Trade Secrets is Project SAGE’s annual fundraiser, and underwriting makes it possible.
Underwriters cover the cost of the event so that 100% of proceeds directly support Project SAGE’s free, confidential programs for victims and survivors of interpersonal and relationship violence—representing nearly 30% of our annual operating budget.
From the Activist Level ($300) to the Visionary Level ($15,000), each underwriting level includes meaningful benefits and exclusive access—while directly investing in safety, advocacy, prevention, and education in our community.
NEW this year: Saturday Sip & Savor at Tenmile Distillery (included at select levels)
Thank you to our underwriters for making Trade Secrets—and our mission—possible. Learn more about underwriting opportunities on our website.